First published: 13 May 2022 @ 6:00 pm
#4 You Are Giving Them Too Much Control
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Suppose you constantly think about your partner and trying to understand what makes them tick. In that case, you are likely giving too much control over their relationship.
The fact is that no one else has ever had the same thoughts as your partner, and no one else will ever have the same feelings as your partner either.
This means that if you give too much control over the relationship, you are likely to make the same mistakes repeatedly. Therefore, it is much better to have a healthy relationship with someone who does not give them control over everything.
This leads to arguments and stress in the relationship.
#5 You Are Not Prepared To Move On
If you obsess over your previous relationship partner, then it is likely that you are not prepared to move on from them. Then it is expected that they will leave you one day because they feel as though they cannot live without you.
If this happens, it will be hard for you to get back into another romantic relationship again because you will always feel as though something is missing from your life now.
It would be much better if you were prepared for this day and were ready to move on with someone else when it happens. You could always have someone else in your life who can fill the void left behind by your partner when they leave.
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